The Crown: True story behind Princess Anne and Timothy Laurence’s romance

As her marriage disintegrates, Anne finds solace in the arms of another man.

So, just who is Commander Timothy Laurence and what happened between Princess Anne and the equerry in real life?

True story behind Princess Anne and Timothy Laurence’s romance

Anne, Princess Royal likely first met Timothy Laurence when he became an equerry for the Queen in 1986, meaning he began to move in royal circles.

At the time, Anne was still married to her first husband Captain Mark Phillips, the father of her two children Peter Phillips and Zara Phillips (later Tindall).

Anne had married Captain Phillips in 1973 but by the late 1980s, their marriage had fallen apart and both were linked with other partners.

By 1988, Commander Laurence was clearly already highly regarded by the Princess Royal, as he was named as one of only three trustees in The Princess Anne’s Charities trust.

In 1989, the true nature of the Princess Royal and Commander Laurence’s relationship became a source of public speculation when letters from the equerry to Anne were stolen and given to The Sun newspaper.

While the papers were handed over to Scotland Yard, the newspaper The Sunday Mirror noted that they were "too hot to handle” and suggested an “intimate” relationship.

As a result of this, Buckingham Palace released an official statement on the situation.

It stated: “The stolen letters were addressed to the Princess Royal by Commander Timothy Laurence, the Queen’s Equerry.

“We have nothing to say about the contents of personal letters sent to Her Royal Highness by a friend which were stolen and which are the subject of a police investigation."

Later in 1989, it was officially announced that the Princess Royal would separate from her husband Captain Phillips but there were no plans for the pair to divorce.

In 1991, it was revealed by a DNA test that Captain Phillips had fathered a child outside of his marriage while in New Zealand, who had been born in 1985.

Despite this initial plan to merely separate, by 1992, the Princess Royal and her first husband were officially divorced.

In the aftermath, the Princess Royal and Commander Laurence made their public debut as a couple and then went on to swiftly marry near Balmoral at a Presbyterian church.

The wedding took place only days following the announcement that Charles, Prince of Wales would be legally separating from his wife Diana, Princess of Wales.

In attendance at the Princess Royal and Commander Laurence’s wedding was her mother Queen Elizabeth II, her father Prince Philip, Duke of Edinburgh, her maternal grandmother Queen Elizabeth The Queen Mother, her maternal aunt Princess Margaret, Countess of Snowdon, her younger brother Prince Edward, and her children Peter and Zara.

Despite marrying into the royal family, Commander Laurence did not receive a peerage or title.

In 2007, however, Laurence did receive a CBE (Commander of the Order of the British Empire) before he was made a personal aide-de-camp to the Queen in 2008 and then a Knight Commander of the Royal Victorian Order in 2011.

Ever since their marriage, Commander Laurence has been by the side of the Princess Royal and has accompanied her on numerous trips, state events and notable royal family moments.

The pair have attended various royal weddings: Charles, Prince of Wales to Camilla Parker Bowles in 2005; Prince William of Wales to Catherine Middleton in 2011; Prince Harry of Wales to Meghan Markle in 2018; and Princess Eugenie of York to Jack Brooksbank in 2018.

In 2022, Laurence was allowed to join the Princess Royal on the Buckingham Palace balcony for the Queen’s Platinum Jubilee celebrations.

In September, the death of Queen Elizabeth II saw Princess Anne accompany her coffin from Scotland to London by air and Laurence was by her side throughout.

The pair then went on to attend the state funeral of the late monarch together.

Who plays Commander Timothy Laurence in The Crown season 5?

Actor Theo Fraser Steele portrays Commander Timothy Laurence in The Crown season 5.

The series inaccurately portrays Anne falling for Laurence in the 1990s before their marriage in 1992, but their relationship had actually begun in the late 1980s.

However, the show portrays Laurence as being an equerry when he catches Anne’s eye in the opening episode of the season, Queen Victoria Syndrome.

In the episode Annus Horribilis, Anne makes clear that she wants to defy precedent and remarry despite being a divorcee; refusing to be denied her marriage to Laurence. In the face of her resolve, the Queen relents to her daughter’s wishes despite concerns related to the Church of England’s dislike of remarriage.

As Anne spots palace employees whispering and eyeing the couple together after leaving a meeting with her mother, Anne defiantly kisses Laurence in full view of them before leaving in her car.

Laurence is seen in later episodes on Anne’s side.

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